bed room essentials

Researches found that couples with a television in their bedroom have less sex. So if you want a simple way of increasing your lovemaking get rid of the TV and replace it with a fireplace. Or get a fireplace DVD to watch as a hypnotic stress reducer and set a cozy mood. This way, if you're "lucky" your TV may just be a "boob" tube.
A famous home decorating personality was asked "what is the best kind of lighting to have when entertaining?" She responded by saying candlelight. She said something like, "It hides the dust and imperfections you may have in your home. Besides, everything looks better and more festive in candlelight."
The same could be said for intimate encounters, everything looks better in candlelight and it hides imperfections you may feel self conscious about. Make sure you have plenty of candles and a candle lighter in your bedroom.
A cold room may make a woman's nipples stand out as if aroused, but it can be like a cold shower on the mood. A cold nose and cold feet are not sexy. And blankets can get in the way of frolic. Make sure your love space is a nice place to be naked. Keep a small quiet space heater in your bedroom to warm your toes and your nose. If passion gets the room too hot, you can always turn off the space heater, but don't let a cold room be a turn off to passion. Place the space heater near your TV fireplace for faux fire heat effect.
Plan for the infamous wet spot. There are blankets made just for this purpose or make your own by using an inexpensive shower curtain covered with a soft throw blanket. You can even place a couple of layers of towels on top the shower curtain before covering with the throw blanket if needed because of the possibility of large amounts of fluid being released during your activities. When you're ready for sleep just fold up your sex blanket and set aside.
Don't forget the sex furniture. This can be anything from several inexpensive standard sized pillows covered with washable covers (use various prints and colors to give the pillows a romantic flare) to specialized foam furniture made just for sex. Using sex furniture or pillows can go a long way to making new positions easier to try and more comfortable and enjoyable.
Speaking of sex furniture, adding a leather Parsons chair and a leather bench to your room's décor can spice up your sex life. They are great for off the bed activities and open up many great new positions. Leather warms up quickly when exposed to a naked body and wipes clean with a damp clothe. And you don't have to worry about hiding them under the bed or in a closet.
Hand towels or wash clothes kept nearby come in handy for wiping up any spills. Forget using moistened towelettes, they just smear stuff around. Get a supply to use just for sex and matches your room's décor. Keep them in the nightstand drawer or folded nicely on top, dressed up with a napkin ring.
You can buy special "toy cleaner" but all you need is a container of hand sanitizer. Keep it with your "adult toys" and use after each toy session to keep them germ free.
If you have a lamp near your bed, consider replacing the bulb with a black light. Black light goes well with candlelight and there is something about black light that enhances the beauty of skin color. Also, with a black light nearby you can have fun writing sexy notes or explicit instructions on your skin with an ultraviolet marker that will light up under the black light.
Add these bedroom sex essentials to create a cozy comfortable love nest and enjoy more frequent love making.