how to attract your lover!!!

You love him. You want him more than anything in the world. Now put your potions into practice and he'll be yours forever.
Timing: On the new moonDay: Thursday or Friday nightHour: 6pm, 9pm or midnight
You'll need:
A red candle (a taper is fine – not in glass) – and a candle-holder
parchment paper and pen
a sharp instrument to inscribe on the candle (such as a toothpick)
rose oil, jasmine oil, or some other pleasant floral scent of your choice
an ashtray, or some other flameproof container
Get started Begin by taking a bath. After you finish, dry off, but don’t get dressed. Prepare the red candle by inscribing on it your name, your birthdate, your sun sign, and/or any symbols you associate with yourself. If you have a secret name you use, inscribe that as well.
Next, take the parchment paper and the pen. Write all the qualities you want in a potential lover. For example: good listener, sexy, patient, dances well, etc. List whatever you want, but don’t write any one person’s name – you don’t have the right to impose your will on them. If they’re really are right for you, this spell will bring them to you. If not, this spell will bring the person who is.
After you’ve written the parchment, take the oil and use it to anoint the parchment on its corners, and over each quality you want. As you do this, say: “I call upon thee, Aphrodite and Venus, Goddesses of Love and Beauty, hear me! I ask you to send me a lover who is: (read your parchment) I ask you to send him to me, so that I may know true happiness in love! So Mote It Be!”
Now take the oil and anoint the candle, then anoint your wrists. Light the candle and as you do so, call out to the goddesses in your own words that you want this lover to come into your life.
As the candle burns, read your parchment over and over, several times – aloud or silently. Impress upon your mind these qualities you want in a lover. Also, feel your need for this lover, let your secret desires come and feel them. Send the energy of these desires to the candle and thus to the goddesses. You can dance to raise energy, or you can dance erotically to raise your own desires. You can also touch and please yourself this time, the way you imagine a lover might touch and please you. Do whatever you feel comfortable doing, and allow the candle to continue burning.
Finishing up When you’re ready to end the ritual, the last thing you should burn is the parchment paper describing the qualities you want in a lover. Read it over one last time, then consign it to the candle’s flame. Let it burn completely. The candle needs to be burned out completely, though you don’t have to stay with it the whole time – just ensure it can burn safely.
Take the ashes from the parchment when you’re finished and allow the wind to take them out of your hand, or scatter them in a moving river or stream. To finish the ritual, you should wear the oil you used every day until the full moon. And now be sure to be open to meeting new people, especially during the next two- to 12-week period. Don’t turn down invitations to parties, and don’t just sit at home waiting for someone to call you!