MOVING ON

When we suffer heart breaks or disappointments in relationships, it takes a lot of strength to pull ourselves through. Most times, we go on brooding over what happened and blame ourselves for yet another breakup. The pain is most felt when our partner elopes without giving us any concrete reason. We ask ourselves why, when and how? We tend to believe that we did not play our roles as lovers very well.
Agrees, getting over a failed relationship is and arduous task given the fact that we may have tailored our life patterns and gotten so used to our partners that we suddenly find ourselves lonely and empty. This makes us to not come to terms with the reality of the breakup so, as we believe it may still be a mirage or wait for a miracle to happen.
So what do you do when faced with a breakup? It’s imperative that we find the inner strength to forget the past and move on with or lives. The world is still full of exciting people waiting to meet us so why brood over one person? There are also people who still appreciate us like old pals and colleagues. These people knowingly on otherwise make us realize our positive attributes. You can also do those things that you missed while in the relationship like hanging out with the girls, clubbing,. flirting e.t.c
You can also learn new skills like a new language, cooking that special recipe or enrolling for a new course. The basic thing is that you should improve on you self image. Read self-help books, get a new wardrobe and change your looks. Most importantly change your mindset and see the positive things that life holds for you. Take what has happened as a blessing in disguise. Have you not heard every dark cloud has a silver lining? So why should we allow one fellow to rob us of the beauty of life? Simply move on with you life!!!