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Monday, November 26, 2007

how to get the beautiful girl of your dreams

How many times have you seen an absolutely breathtaking woman walk by, arms draped lovingly around a guy that is not nearly as good looking as you? All the time, right? You know how many times I've had a guy friend freak out over yet another beautiful hottie dating a guy with just average looks? Happens every time we all go out! And this is where you guys get it consistently wrong. Maybe it's just that we are much deeper creatures than you guys, but.....there is A LOT more to being sexy than a handsome face or a pumped up bod. I'll go as far as to say that EVERY one of my beautiful girl friends goes out with a guy who has just about average looks. (And a few I even think are below average - but they are still SEXY!) Now, obviously these have something you don't right? I mean, you are an attractive guy and you have probably dated some pretty girls, but I'm guessing if you're honest, you'll admit that few of them have been absolutely STUNNING. Here are a few easy ways to pick up your rap a notch next time you see a woman you want, but think she's out of your league. (She's not, trust me!)
1)You have got to believe you are worthy of dating the woman in the room that all eyes can't stop watching....The woman who makes the clock on the wall stop ticking....If you don't have the confidence that she belongs with you, you'll NEVER get her. That is where it all begins, guys. I can spot a man who's got "IT" - even if he's just ok looking, from a mile and a half away, on a foggy day and without my glasses on..:-) That's how powerful confidence is. When you see it, it knocks you over and brings a beautiful woman to her knees. If you don't have it now, you need to get it. And soon!
2)Make her feel she needs to be WORTHY of going home with YOU. This is easier said than done for most men, but for the man who you want to be? It will come naturally. The average looking guy who has mastered this skill is so far ahead of the great looking guy with no appeal other than a good looking face. A handsome guy grows old quick, boys. But the challenge of a guy who makes US work for it, that goes on forever! Develop the "game" of keeping us one step behind and you will always be on top. (Or at least as far as keeping us interested goes..:-)
3)Compliment her - but not on her looks! This is so simple....Yet 99% of guys will just never get this.... (Although YOU will!) Everyone compliments her on her looks. She KNOWS she looks good. But she's still insecure, just like you. Most likely, her insecurities are simply in other areas. This is where you are going to be unique and make her melt....Rather than stating the OBVIOUS which every guy who hits on her is going to point out ( "you are beautiful") you are going to find other things to point out that are equally as flattering, yet have nothing to do with her looks. I don't care what it is - find something! And work it hard..:-) Trust me, she's going to pay A LOT more attention to a compliment she hasn't heard before, rather than the same stuff all the other boys are saying.
As always...There is so much more. But this is enough to get MOST beautiful women interested, and very intrigued. Start working on the above and you are going to see a very big change in the next few months, trust me....women you never believed would be coming home with YOU will. A

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